ABQ Times

Domestic violence is a persistent issue that affects individuals and families throughout the year. Áine McCarthy, director of The University of New Mexico’s Women’s Resource Center (WRC), acknowledges the increased challenges many survivors face during the holiday season due to financial stress, family pressures, and isolation.

“Safety planning is critical for survivors of domestic violence, whether they are planning an exit strategy or just trying to survive and mitigate harm while living with abuse,” McCarthy said.

At UNM, students have access to confidential advocates through the WRC, LGBTQ Resource Center, and LoboRESPECT Advocacy Center. These services offer tailored safety planning, emotional support, and connections to external resources like Albuquerque’s Domestic Violence Resource Center, Enlace Comunitario, and the Asian Family Center.

Studies indicate a rise in domestic violence incidents during holidays. An analysis by the National Domestic Violence Hotline shows more calls during stressful times such as the holiday season. Factors contributing to this include financial strain, substance use, and increased time at home. McCarthy stresses community awareness and preparedness during these vulnerable periods.

“Having resources readily available and reducing stigma around seeking help can make all the difference,” she said.

Leaving a harmful relationship is often seen as a complete solution culturally; however, for many survivors it is only a first step toward building a new life.

“Recovering from financial abuse is often a part of the healing and rebuilding process,” McCarthy explained. She mentioned a workshop by financial coach Tara Hackel on the Independence Project that aids survivors in rebuilding credit and establishing financial independence. “Programs like this can be game-changing for individuals striving to gain a stable footing after leaving abusive situations.”

The WRC also provides support groups for long-term survivors to help them deal with trauma's emotional impacts.

“Understanding you’re not alone and making meaning from your own story often helps with the self-compassion that is essential for healing,” McCarthy shared. The student organization SPACE (Student Prevention & Advocacy for Consent Education) offers a platform for collaboration on violence prevention initiatives.

Workplace reintegration poses another challenge for many survivors who have experienced stalking or other forms of persistent abuse.

“Explaining safety precautions to employers or accounting for gaps in employment can be incredibly difficult,” McCarthy noted while advocating for increased workplace accommodations and awareness.

The complexity of domestic violence involves intersectionality. “We can’t talk about domestic violence in New Mexico without acknowledging the related epidemic of Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women,” McCarthy stated. She highlighted organizations like the Coalition to Stop Violence Against Native Women that advocate for Indigenous communities' safety and rights.

McCarthy also pointed out that transgender individuals, particularly femmes, are especially vulnerable to abuse with support from organizations such as the Transgender Resource Center of New Mexico.

In her call to action, McCarthy encouraged community involvement through donations and advocacy. The WRC’s Nurture & Thrive Fund assists survivors with costs related to immediate safety or supportive measures. At the state level, organizations like the New Mexico Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs work towards legislative efforts promoting consent education and survivor-centered policies.

“Keep an eye on their efforts. They are fighting for survivors every day,” McCarthy urged.

Domestic violence requires year-round attention beyond awareness months through supporting survivors, advocating systemic change, and reducing stigma—efforts necessary for creating safer communities.

For more information or involvement with UNM Women’s Resource Center initiatives: women@unm.edu