ABQ Times

Domestic violence is a persistent issue that affects individuals and families throughout the year. Áine McCarthy, director of The University of New Mexico’s Women’s Resource Center (WRC), highlights the increased challenges faced by survivors during the holiday season due to financial stress, family pressures, and isolation.

“Safety planning is critical for survivors of domestic violence, whether they are planning an exit strategy or just trying to survive and mitigate harm while living with abuse,” McCarthy said.

At UNM, students have access to confidential advocates through the WRC, LGBTQ Resource Center, and LoboRESPECT Advocacy Center. These services offer tailored safety planning, emotional support, and connections to external resources like Albuquerque’s Domestic Violence Resource Center, Enlace Comunitario, and the Asian Family Center.

Research indicates an increase in domestic violence incidents during holidays. An analysis from the National Domestic Violence Hotline shows more calls during stressful times like the holiday season. Factors contributing to this include financial strain, substance use, and increased time at home. McCarthy stresses community awareness and preparedness during these vulnerable periods.

“Having resources readily available and reducing stigma around seeking help can make all the difference,” she said.

Leaving a harmful relationship is often viewed as a complete solution culturally; however, it is only the first step for many survivors toward building a new life.

“Recovering from financial abuse is often a part of the healing and rebuilding process,” McCarthy explained. She mentioned a workshop by financial coach Tara Hackel that discussed the Independence Project—a program aiding survivors in rebuilding credit and establishing financial independence. “Programs like this can be game-changing for individuals striving to gain a stable footing after leaving abusive situations.”

The WRC also provides support groups for long-term survivors to help them deal with trauma's emotional impacts.

“Understanding you’re not alone and making meaning from your own story often helps with the self-compassion that is essential for healing,” McCarthy shared. The student organization SPACE (Student Prevention & Advocacy for Consent Education) offers a platform for collaboration on violence prevention initiatives.

Workplace reintegration poses another challenge for many survivors who have experienced stalking or other forms of persistent abuse.

“Explaining safety precautions to employers or accounting for gaps in employment can be incredibly difficult,” McCarthy noted, advocating for increased workplace accommodations and awareness.

The complexity of domestic violence involves intersectionality. “We can’t talk about domestic violence in New Mexico without acknowledging the related epidemic of Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women,” McCarthy said. She emphasized organizations such as the Coalition to Stop Violence Against Native Women working towards Indigenous communities' safety and rights.

Transgender individuals are particularly vulnerable to abuse; organizations like the Transgender Resource Center of New Mexico support this community.

McCarthy called for community involvement through donations and advocacy. The WRC’s Nurture & Thrive Fund assists survivors with immediate safety or supportive measures costs. At the state level, organizations like New Mexico Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs advocate legislative efforts advancing consent education and survivor-centered policies.

“Keep an eye on their efforts. They are fighting for survivors every day,” McCarthy urged.

Domestic violence requires year-round attention beyond awareness months through supporting survivors, advocating systemic change, and reducing stigma to create safer communities.

For more information or involvement with UNM Women’s Resource Center initiatives: women@unm.edu